In our society, the elders who are called senior citizens by the world are treated very ruthlessly Let us know how we generally treat the elders of our house and how we treat them. You will see this behavior in every second or third house around you. It includes every section of society, rich, poor, middle class, lower uneducated class, educated class, rich people, and class of people all naked in one bath. They nurture and train their children in an atmosphere of jealousy, jealousy, jealousy, jealousy, jealousy, jealousy, jealousy, jealousy, jealousy, jealousy, jealousy, jealousy, jealousy, jealousy, jealousy, jealousy, jealousy, jealousy, jealousy. Today, our attitude towards the elders is very ridiculous and full of insults.
Different types of violence against elders !!
Let us quietly look at the elders around us and see our own and our children's attitude toward them.
Ignoring Violence:
1. Neglecting the food and drink of the elders and their diet
2. Delay in retrieving batis, spectacles, hearing aid, support rod if damaged
3. Not taking care of clothes and body hygiene
4. Failure to take to the doctor and medicines
5. Not cleaning dry heels is often seen in the elderly, not taking care of their body and hair hygiene,
6. Leaving the room alone for too long
Physical violence. :
1. If the elders of the house have difficulty in getting up and sitting down and they need a washroom or they need to take a bath, do not hesitate and do not pay attention and do not arrange for any helper for them and also avoid it as long as they can. To avoid
2. Mention it in front of everyone if their clothes get damaged due to necessities. Or embarrassing them over and over again in front of them
3. Turn on the TV in their leisure time and do not prevent children from making noise
4. In some households, the regular son is found physically abusing the parents or his wife commits this heinous act in the absence of the husband.
Financial Violence:
1. Don't give money to spend on loans and their needs and luxuries
2. Distributing their property and mentioning their shares in their own life and inflicting mental anguish on a weak person.
3. Don't answer them for the money taken from them and don't give an account of where the money has gone
4. Getting all the family's seasonal clothes and shoes and forgetting them.
5. Eid, everyone goes shopping on wedding occasions, ignoring them and leaving.
Abolition of Fundamental Rights:
1. Don't waste time
2. After giving Salam Dua and giving money, understand that the right has been paid
3. All people, including in-laws, should be consulted but parents should not be involved
4. Make their own decisions and let them do what they want
5. Respond sharply or harshly
6. Don't give your children opportunities to be close to their grandparents, and don't encourage them to do small things.
How can we take care of our elders:
Old age itself is a test. Every effort should be made to consider the elders as important members of the family and to have a special share in their wealth, time, and love. Behind all that we can say in front of the four servants today is their hand somewhere, their prayers. Sit next to them, ask about the situation, listen to their stories over and over again, get advice from them, and call them when they are away. If the elderly are in good health and possible, connect them online with various hobbies of their choice, such as reading books, lecturing on the Qur'an and Hadith, or forming a group of like-minded people where they can share their thoughts.
If it is not possible to take them on a picnic for health reasons, then it is a good idea to set aside time for them and take them out for a walk. If you have to explain technology like phone apps etc., explain it patiently. No matter how much science progresses, love for human society
and ethics cannot be taken out because man is not devoid of feeling and emotion like a machine. Training so that you do not turn evil creatures (who spread evil) into Satan but gain respect for humanity. Allah Almighty says in the Qur'an
(17) Surah Al-Isra (Miki, verse 111)
وَقَضٰى رَبُّكَ اَلَّا تَعْبُدُوٓا اِلَّآ اِيَّاهُ وَبِالْوَالِـدَيْنِ اِحْسَانًا ۚ اِمَّا يَبْلُغَنَّ عِنْدَكَ الْكِبَـرَ اَحَدُهُمَآ اَوْ كِلَاهُمَا فَلَا تَقُلْ لَّـهُمَآ اُفٍّ وَّلَا تَنْـهَرْهُمَا وَقُلْ لَّـهُمَا قَوْلًا كَرِيْمًا (23)
And your Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him, and do good to your parents; Talk to literature,
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